A Mentor, a Friend, and a Guiding Light in Masonry
As we continue gathering stories from widows and Masonic Brothers, we are reminded that our Lodges were built not only by ritual and tradition, but by the men who offered guidance, friendship, and unwavering support. One such Brother was Terry, whose influence continues to shape the Masons who knew him.
I first met Terry while traveling with the Grand Lodge Officers during town hall visits across the state. He approached me, introduced himself with warmth and confidence, and from that moment, we formed an instant bond. What began as a simple conversation quickly grew into a friendship—one built on shared interests, honest talk, and mutual respect.
Terry loved that I farmed and hunted. We spent countless conversations comparing different breeds of cattle, debating which ones tasted better, and which produced the best steaks. But beyond the lighthearted discussions, Terry offered something far more meaningful: guidance.
He shared his thoughts on the Craft openly and always supported me as I considered becoming a Mason. When he first became ill, our conversations continued through text—simple, everyday exchanges about my future in Masonry, about life, and about becoming the best version of myself. Even while facing his own challenges, Terry never stopped encouraging me.
He was one of the toughest, most positive men I have ever known. His strength wasn’t loud—it was steady, grounded, and deeply genuine. I still have our text messages saved on my phone, and I return to them whenever I need a few words of encouragement. His voice, his advice, and his belief in me continue to guide my steps.
I miss him every day. And I can only hope that the Mason I have become is one he would be proud of.
Submitted by: William Mitchell